The King and I…(and a story of learning courage)

This is not the start of some fictional story or make believe anecdote.  Nor is it about my special memories of my mother, sisters and I all singing along to the Friday night movie special of The King and I, imagining what those days were like of impossible dresses and outrageous social expectations of women.  This story is about courage and how The King and I played a role in teaching me about courage.

Picture credit to Daily Mail UK - Deborah Kerr (in the King and I)There were many messages of courage throughout the movie – the courage to follow your dreams, the courage to stand up to a bully or to fight for better outcomes despite the conventions of the day. 

However my biggest lesson from The King and I came from having the courage to overcome your fears.  Although this may sound corny, it is a real story and I will tell you how I learned to develop courage.

About 3 years into the workforce, I put my hand up to take on a big project.  It involved doing some strategy work for a bunch of super smart, confident, talented, experienced – and as it turned out – extremely demanding people.  

The brief turned out to be much more difficult and challenging than I had first expected.  Certainly it was beyond my experience and knowledge of that time.  I felt out of my depth and felt all the physical signs that come with fearing the enormous task and expectations in front of me – heart racing, legs shaking, stomach knotting and mind racing.  At that moment of fear and crisis, in amongst thinking of all the reasons to not be able to say yes or to limit somehow what was possible to something more reasonable, somewhere out of the depths of memory, a song started playing in the back of my mind. 

It went like this…

Whenever I feel afraid, I hold my head erect
And whistle a happy tune, So no one will suspect
I’m afraid.

While shivering in my shoes, I strike a careless pose
And whistle a happy tune,  And no one ever knows
I’m afraid.

The result of this deception, Is very strange to tell
For when I fool the people I fear,
I fool myself as well!

And sure enough by immediately changing my focus from fear to “I will find a way”, and when I showed confidence that what was being demanded was possible, I actually began to believe those project goals could be reached that it was just a matter of finding the way.  It allowed an immediate settling in my mind and an unwinding of my stomach so I could be free to focus on finding the solution and the “how”.  In the example I mentioned, I confidently stated what they briefed could be achieved and shared a rough outline of the strategy and a plan of action.  I included what the dependencies would be and set a new time to meet to present the more detailed strategy which bought me more time to work through the details. 

The result was extremely positive. The goals were reached and a great sense of satisfaction and respect was gained.

But the biggest positive for me was the lesson of courage that it taught me.  I was able to put the art of make believing I was brave, and focusing on the positives in every situation, and finding that I was actually brave and positive enough to face anything.  By finding a strategy to overcome my fears, it allowed me to find the courage to overcome barriers, find solutions and be confident to continuously look for and do new things. 

I have adopted this approach many, many times – whether it be walking into a new networking situation, addressing a large group of people, taking on what may seem to be the impossible brief or role.  Each time you find you can do something, it builds your confidence to explore and overcome any future challenging situation.  This strategy can be adopted as much in our personal lives as it can in our professional lives.

We can all achieve so much more if we allow ourselves to go as close to the edge of impossible as we can before we allow ourselves to feel limitations or constraints.  If we limit our scope to something that feels safer, more comfortable, more easy – we lose the possibility of breaking new ground and achieving something truly new, remarkable and special.

The more we believe we can do something, the more others will believe you can and that they can do it too.  As a leader, you will find that if you demonstrate believe, then you will have your people help you do whatever it is you need to do.

And so as the song continues…

Make believe you’re brave,
And the trick will take you far.

You may be as brave
As you make believe you are.

 

(Lyrics by Rodgers and Hammerstein, 1951.  The Movie “The King and I” starring Yul Brynner and Deborah Kerr by 20th Century Fox, 1956.)

Defining Leadership Webinar Presentation

You can view the presentation delivered by Emma on “Defining Leadership – Leading your way to greater success” as delivered to the Australian Businesswomen’s Network.

Here is the link to the ABN webinar presentation dated 29 July 2009: https://www2.gotomeeting.com/register/579292194

Please note: You will need to provide an email address to unlock the presentation file, however this will only take a few seconds.

This presentation covers:

  • The basics of good leadership
  • The differences between being a good manager and being a great leader
  • How to unlock the potential of your people under a common vision
  • How to deliver something greater (with your team) than what you could ever have achieved by yourself
  • How, by investing in yourself as a leader, you can lead your way to greater success.
  • Those that want to move from being managers to being leaders

To find out more about the Australian Businesswomen’s Network, visit www.abn.org.au

Leading your business to success

Written by Emma Lo Russo and as published in the July 2009 “Australian Businesswomen’s Network” newsletter:

Leading your business to success

Leadership.  Picture by Denis ColletteYou have the title, a team that reports to you and a defined business purpose and responsibility. The business environment and competition is tough and you are looking at new ways to ensure continued growth and success. You spend night and day wondering what else you can do, what extra advantage you can create…

It is likely you already hold that advantage. And the answer is your own employees. You can easily move from managing them to do their job (even if you do this aspect very well), to leading them to achieve something far greater – for themselves and for your business.

Understanding the difference between management and leadership

Management is about getting the best out of resources, mostly through defining responsibilities and processes, to further the goals of the company. ‘Leadership’ on the other hand is painting a common view of the future and inspiring and galvanising your team towards achieving it.

There are some key leadership characteristics and qualities to embody if you hope to achieve a powerful business advantage through your people. A key aspect is understanding that your people are entirely your business. They provide the moment of truth every time they interact with your customers, partners, suppliers, each other etc. It is important that they share and believe in the aspirations for your company. That they can see how to align their communications and activities they do every day to the greater picture you have of success, and how that can in turn help them enjoy and benefit from that success.

Acknowledging, encouraging, empowering your people to act in harmony with your vision and values is far more powerful than prescribing what you want and outlining precisely how they should be doing it.

Empowering your people

Regularly sharing your vision and plans for the future and encouraging your team to help visualise success will help stimulate growth. Looking to your people to help identify the best growth opportunities and providing regular forums for your employees to present their ideas can help grow your business. Acknowledge all good ideas, empower your people to own those ideas and reward them when they help you get to where you want to go faster. The more you can celebrate success with your employees, the greater the performance culture you are creating.

Tips to help you lead your organisation to success:

  • Paint a common view of the future and translate your vision and strategy into workable goals for your employees
  • Share your vision regularly, applying short and long-term frame of references for all projects and activities
  • Live and promote your desired culture and values
  • Model integrity in decisions, communication and treatment of people – always lead by example
  • Recognise others’ strengths and limitations – focus on building teams around individual employees'(and your own) strengths
  • Coach, mentor and develop your team – help your team members develop self-awareness and strive for personal development, helping them align their career aspirations with your business goals
  • Inspire, encourage and acknowledge action and commitment from your employees

When thinking about leadership, it is good to reflect on the line “follow me, I am right behind you”.

If you lead through inspiration, suggestion and example then your team will follow, encourage others and deliver you greater success.

To read the article in context and others on leadership go to:

http://www.abn.org.au/womeninbusiness/newsletterissue79/Leadership-Strategies-for-Women/index_landing.html

To follow Emma on Twitter: www.twitter.com/EmmaLoRusso

Taking your product to market – How to turn your product into a business

Emma presented the topic “Taking your product to market – How to turn your product into a business” at BootUpCamp, an intensive workshop where participants go from an idea to a fully operational web business in two weeks.

To watch Emma’s presentation go to:

Part 1: http://www.viddler.com/explore/BootUpCamp/videos/10/

Part 2: http://www.viddler.com/explore/BootUpCamp/videos/11/

Part 3: http://www.viddler.com/explore/BootUpCamp/videos/12/

Part 4: http://www.viddler.com/explore/BootUpCamp/videos/13/

Attending to the elephants

How often have you seen or been in situations where everyone around you is busy discussing, dealing and deciding on the smaller, easiest issues to address, and the item that is most likely to be a showstopper is being overlooked or held-over to address at another time. 

elephant in the room by j_gargThe expression “ignoring the elephant in the room” is based on this very situation.  Just as an elephant in a room would be impossible to overlook, we use it to describe those situations where we pretend the elephant is not there, concerning ourselves with smaller, relatively insignificant matters, shuffling around the bigger issue of what to do with the elephant in the room.

The “elephant” is usually a bigger issue we choose to avoid because we know it will be time-consuming, painful and uncomfortable to deal with.  So we take comfort in keeping busy with all the other things that can be done instead.

More often than not, it is the smallest things being left unresolved that prevents us from bringing to conclusion the projects we are working on. 

Just as we can rationalize ignoring the big elephant, it is even easier to rationalize ignoring the smallest of issues, wishing them away and dismissing them as insignificant or as something “easy to deal with later”.   

In reality we find that either issue – big or small – no matter how far forward we move the project or initiative we are working on, it can never be fully resolved and finished until the outstanding matter is resolved. 

Recently I was in discussions with a business.  They had engaged me to discuss their overall business proposition, position and product portfolio ahead of a launch.   There were many outstanding matters to be dealt with and decisions to be made and they were rushing through their list to get feedback on all of them.  However there was a starting showstopper, and no matter how much they wanted to cover all the later issues on the list, if they did not resolve the basic starting proposition, they were not going to be able to resolve anything else, nor achieve a successful outcome.

Through further discussions and exploration, it became evident that there was an issue of avoidance in dealing with perhaps the biggest fundamental showstopper (the elephant in the room).  There was clear conflict in the direction by two key principals of the business.  Each saw it differently, and the rest of the team was busy trying to avoid bringing these differences of opinion into focus let alone to a conclusion and final agreement.  Lots of busy work was being done on other facets, giving a false sense of progress, however it was evident there was no way this could work without getting a common agreement from the two conflicting principals.  And this agreement was fundamental to the success of the next stage of their business.  Once the elephant was attended to, the next stages of business could then move forward.

Discomfort of conflict is often the underlying reason of why issues will be left unresolved although there are many cases where it is avoidance of having to work through the difficult aspects of the project.  It is too easy to spend time on the sexier, easier, showier parts of a project or to spend time on the areas that we have greater confidence, expertise or experience in.  Meanwhile the clock races on towards the deadline.

No matter what the shape or size of it is – a show stopper is a show stopper.  You need to identify when you have a show stopper, and you need to deal with it immediately.  Ideally you would be proactively looking for the elephants or the show stoppers of any size.   

The beauty in attending to the elephants early is the quality of solution that can follow. The earlier you have to solve the issue, the more creative the solution.  And the solution may be very different from what you were first thinking or fitting the rest of the non-critical elements around. 

As I have seen firsthand and Edward de Bono is noted as saying:

“It is well known that “problem avoidance” is an important part of problem solving. Instead of solving the problem you go upstream and alter the system so that the problem does not occur in the first place.”

To get this benefit you need to first attend to the elephants.

The power of “Pressing the Flesh”

It doesn’t matter how clever we are. Nor does it matter how many books, forums or surveys we read. Nor how many official meetings we attend.  If we do not get out there to “press the flesh” we are not going to be across what is really happening in the world we are responsible for.Barrack Obama - Pressing the Flesh by cnicseye

Without directly talking to those you have responsibility for – whether this be your employees, customers, investors, family or community – how can you really be confident you have a handle on their real sentiment and emotion? Can you really know how your recent decisions have impacted them?  Be certain that what you think is important to them is the same as what they think is important? 

The only way to really know is to stop, ask and to listen yourself to the people you are responsible for, and if you can, to spend some time “walking in their shoes”.  This can never be met by having this outsourced or filtered through other people.

It may require you to consider it as an imperative, a percentage of time you set aside, or build it into your daily schedule to ensure you are spending enough time being physically connected to the people you are leading and are responsible for.  As much as possible, be engaged regularly and as close as possible on their terms, without the formality of a pre-determined agenda.   The less rehearsed the encounter, the fresher your read on what is really happening.

It does not have to take up a huge chunk of your time or be a major single event.  You can daily walk the corridors and visit workstations taking time to talk to people on the way to somewhere else.  Or allocate a day a month to visit your customers’ businesses – and really talk to those who are using your products or services. Or man the phones, have open lunches, create social events and actively participate or help out if someone is away.   There are many ways you can get out there and press the flesh.  But it is essential that you break the shackles of your work desk.  You need to go where you do not normally go.  Talk to those you don’t normally talk to.  You need to look to encounter as much of a reality of all your people (those you have a responsibility for) as you can.

The powerful return is far greater than helping others feel good.  It is about getting a firsthand account and measure of what exactly is happening.  It allows you to see what actions you may wish or need to take.  What priorities to adjust or what new initiatives you may need to introduce.  You may discover you need to make different types of investments or decisions but it is more than likely you will discover that you will need to improve general communications. 

You may discover that this practice uncovers a great new opportunity.  An idea that can set your organization apart.  A product concept that becomes the next big thing. Or just find that these actions of you connecting can energize your team to deliver something greater than before. 

If you genuinely care about your people and align everyone under a common vision that they believe in, they too will respond with care, passion and commitment.  By engaging directly, they will feel valued and that they have a voice.  That they are not dispensable or not important to you, but are instead seen by you to be important and part of helping create something great.

One of the more likely outcomes is the energy source you yourself will gain.  Remembering why you went into business, corporate, NFP or office in the first place.

So go on, get out there.  Start pressing the flesh.  Now.

Extraordinary Leadership – Leading for superior growth

National Webinair – 30 July

“Leadership is all about inspiring and empowering others under a shared vision to deliver beyond the ordinary, to create something special, and to ultimately result in making this world a better place. Inspire and galvanise your team to deliver extraordinary results by transforming yourself into an extraordinary leader.”

This session builds from the basics of leadership covered in the Defining Leadership webinar on 29 July 2009 and challenges you to develop as an extraordinary leader so you can lead and deliver superior growth.

In this webinar, sponsored by Go To Webinar, you’ll discover:

  • How you can move from being a good leader to being an extraordinary leader
  • How to move from leading individuals into developing and inspiring tomorrow’s leaders
  • How to lead greater movements or communities of people through more challenging and complex times or to achieve more audacious and inspired goals.
  • How by investment in expanding your leadership capabilities and growing your desire to develop other leaders, can result in delivering superior growth and outcomes that make this world (including your world) a better place.

By drawing on examples, be prepared to be challenged in these sessions.

You can’t afford to miss these valuable lessons in leadership.

Who should attend?

  • Those who have staff (even if they are virtual staff)
  • Those looking to develop leadership in others
  • Those looking to lead large groups and communities

Event Details:

Defining Leadership – National

DATE:
TIME:
VENUE:
Thursday, 30 July 2009
10.15am for 10.30am – 11.30am AEST
Your home or office

To book or to find out more about the Australian Businesswomen’s Network or this session, visit www.abn.org.au

Defining Leadership – Leading your way to greater success

National Webinair – 29 July

Here is the link to the ABN webinair presentation: https://www2.gotomeeting.com/register/579292194

Please note: You will need to provide an email address to unlock the presentation file, only takes a few seconds. 

Details of the presentation:

“Leadership is all about inspiring and empowering others under a shared vision to deliver beyond the ordinary, to create something special, and to ultimately result in making this world a better place. Inspire and galvanise your team to deliver extraordinary results by transforming yourself into an extraordinary leader.”  Emma Lo Russo

As a business leader, the need to manage others is a given. The responsibility comes with your title, or because you pay the wages. However not everyone who is a manager of people can be considered a leader. Leaders inspire and influence others to follow them by choice to help them deliver on their vision and ensure greater success.

At the Defining Leadership webinar, sponsored by Go To Webinar, you’ll learn :

  • The basics of good leadership
  • The differences between being a good manager and being a great leader
  • How to unlock the potential of your people under a common vision
  • How to deliver something greater (with your team) than what you could ever have achieved by yourself
  • How, by investing in yourself as a leader, you can lead your way to greater success.

Who should attend?

  • Business owners looking to start hiring
  • Those wanting to be better self-leaders
  • Those who have staff (even if they are virtual staff)
  • Those that want to move from being managers to being leaders

Event Details:

Defining Leadership – National

DATE:
TIME:
VENUE:
Wednesday, 29 July 2009
10.15am for 10.30am – 11.30am AEST
Your home or office

To book or to find out more about the Australian Businesswomen’s Network or this session, visit www.abn.org.au

Are you listening to your customers?

We all understand the power of referral business and a glowing customer testimonial. Particularly if it is from a customer who is prepared to say how you made them richer, stronger or more fabulous than before.

When was the last time one of your customers provided positive feedback in writing or publically endorsed your organization? When you received that feedback, did you acknowledge the customer?  And did you acknowledge your employee or team who were responsible for generating that positive response?

 What if it was negative, did you re-engage and thank the customer, look to involve them in future product reviews, value them in a way that acknowledges your success is dependent upon how you treat and deliver to your customers.

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I am not advocating the customer is always right and that to be a customer success driven organization it means you just do what they ask for.  This is about listening.  Listening and engaging your customers.  Expecting and respecting that they will talk about their experience with your organization with someone, and maybe with many people either face-to-face or via any of the easy-to-use social mediums.  You can’t control what they are going to say about you, but you can create an environment that makes every touch point positive, consistent and what is felt as an important engagement in a long term relationship. 

Today I talked to two business owners of very different businesses.  I asked the question of both of them to define their long term revenue model.  And whether they had defined the perfect customer relationship – what engagement model, over what period of time, to generate a defined amount of revenue and profitability.  Neither could answer and both admitted they were in the trap of thinking short term. One wanting to squeeze every possible dollar out of the first transaction and thus was focused on how many customers he could meet (in a volume X single transaction model) and the other just thinking survival so the horizon was very short term (weeks in fact).  The problem with thinking this way is that they could both see that they were putting at risk a longer term relationship with the customer and potentially putting at risk the long term viability of their business and the profitability able to be realized over a long-term relationship with the end customer.  They both acknowledged there was room for a better customer engagement model, with a relationship built and secured over the long term with the added potential to up-sell, cross-sell and value-add based on their ability to perform. Forget short term accountability – think of a longer term engagement model that requires long term accountability, and one that brings greater profitability.

 This brings us back to the customer experience, and whether you are delivering this at each touch point and measuring this in a meaningful way.

When you genuinely feel the service or quality you experience is extraordinary, you are more likely to want to thank someone.  A phone call, an email, or post something to a web forum or social network.   You will share your positive experience with those close to you.  When the experience is anything less than average, it can generate multiple conversations with anyone that will listen.  Any of you who are active on Twitter will see how quickly great service and even more so, bad service is shared, and if it communicates the point more strongly, it will include an image and provide great detail of what is wrong.  This often starts a number of those who begin sharing their similar experience.  Or what alternative solution that they found.  Rants get posted to blogs and then linked to other blogs, forums,  tweets or Facebook posts for all to read, with hot topics seeing many of those who agree or disagree engaged even further. So it moves from perhaps a series of single incidents into a customer sentiment that is hurting your brand.

 Someone’s perception of your company is their reality. Which means you can’t hide and you can’t control it.  And thus, I ask, are you listening to your customers?

Since you can’t control what your customers are saying about you or where they are saying it, you need to focus on their experience when engaging with you.

If you don’t encourage and provide a forum for them to feedback to you, then they will find or create their own.  So create that space, have the space owned by your customers and encourage active feedback (good and bad). 

Engage in some way with each and every customer who shares their experience with you – this may be through suggested reading, recourse, or just in saying thanks.  Share your appreciation for the feedback and what you did about it, not only to them but to the rest of your customer base. 

The basis of creating a community and establishing a large number of loyal long-term customers will be strongly based around how well your customers feel they are being listened to.  Whether they can see their feedback is influencing the overall customer experience, the levels or types of customer service and support, possibly even the products or services you provide.

And don’t ignore the stuff “out there” in the global social media space.  Not just what they are saying about you but what they are saying about your competition.  Today there are companies that offer tools that measure buzz, mentions of products and brands. This can provide you very early insights into what could become a big opportunity for you – either heading off a disaster or in discovering your next breakthrough.

So ask yourself the question today – do your customers have a place to talk to you? Does your business processes and culture encourage listening?  And if a customer does talk to you – how will they know they were being listened to and that their input is valued and can help positively impact your business?

You can significantly improve your business if you view every single customer as a potential evangelist and part of your extended sales organization.

Get something positive out of the recession

Get Electronics WeeklyEmma Lo Russo offers five tips (to electronics organizations) for grasping opportunities created by the downturn.   Read the article as published in Electronics Weekly, 24 June 2009, and as promoted on the cover page and published on page 10.  Electronics Weekly targets electronic product organizations and electronics engineers.

Full transcript of article below:

Recessions get a bad press.  But they are really opportunities with halitosis.  Once you get over the shock, you can set to and work with the opportunities to create breakthroughs.  It’s all about channeling recessions in a positive way.

The electronics design sector is ripe for this kind of thinking.  The current recession can be deployed in your favour, to blast away the staid thinking that abounds in the sector.  That things are done the way they are done because they have always been that way is a common refrain.  Time it went the way of the thermionic valve.

Here are five tips, made with appropriate humility, that reflect the opportunities for change under the cover of the current recession:

Innovate

Nothing that has gone before will be good enough for the future.  This is code for “innovate” and innovate means doing different things in different ways, not doing things better.

So take a holistic approach to electronics design that starts with the broader desired user experience.  How do they want to interact with your product (not how you want them to interact)?Microsoft Word - electronics weekly Altium 062409,p10 Art.Lo Rus

And take a close look at the rule book on which you base your design methodology.  Does it still serve your needs, or does it now struggle to do so?  Is it based on a divide-and-conquer approach to electronics design, in which you divide the complexity of the task into manageable elements to conquer the design comlexity, only to find that you have killed off innovation?

Connectivity

It doesn’t matter how cool it is if it’s not connected.  I doubt you need reminding that connectivity is the most important attribute of any device today.  This is also code for saying that making something look cool is the minimum attribute of a successful product, and everyone will copy you very quickly.

If the past 40 years of electronics was the age of miniaturisation, we are already well into the age of connectivity.  The next generation of electronic products will not be stand-alone devices, as they have been in the past.  Instead, electronic products are being promoted, to become elements in much bigger ecosystems.  They are now the means by which users tap into these ecosystems.  The metal, silicon and plastics from which they are made become less relevant in this much broader view of design.

So, design from this perspective.  That means start (once you have worked out the desired user experience, of course) with creating the intelligence you want to pour into the product, and then, and only then, find the right device hardware into which to pour it.  After all, you don’t create a statue by starting with the mould.  You reflect first on the emotional connection you want to make with the work of art you are about to create.

Intelligence

It doesn’t matter how cool it is if it’s dumb.  Intelligence is at the core of successful products, and not just successful consumer electronic products.  The intelligence of a device is also how you will differentiate in the future, and it is much more difficult to copy than hardware. 

Designers must stop thinking of a design as discrete hardware, programmable hardware and software, and instead define a design by its functionality, and then map this functionality to the most appropriate implementation.

The true value inside tomorrow’s products is defined by the soft elements of the design.  These soft elements should be the focus and the place to start.  Don’t constrain the critical properties, its function, connectivity and the user experience of the end product before you have even started.

Changing competition

You no longer know who your competition is, or where they’re based.  Sorry for stating the obvious. But one bad thing about recessions is that they can camouflage a much larger shift that had started before the recession kicked in.

Take a deep breath, Google “innovation” and see what comes up.  These data show one thing: that the design and manufacture of products even as sophisticated as electronic components will likely be done somewhere else in the future.  The question to ask, therefore, is whether you want to play in this game, and what do you do to stay in the game?

Check your tools

Nothing should stop you from doing what you want to do, or have to do.  This is code for assess your tools and support systems right now.  If there is any aspect of what they offer, or how they work, that gets in your way, be ruthless.  Change them.  Change them now under the cover of the recession.